OMG this question is hard >.< Okay… I have been following SNSD for a while now and my theory/opinion would be: P.S: THIS IS JUST MY OPINION!!!!! based on what I’ve seen, read, stalked SNSD, etc!!!!!

 Yuri is one of the strongest personalities inside the group. Most of my conclusions are based on Hello Baby and shows that allow them to interact with each other / otherwise its hard to tell ( drawing conclusions just by the way they look each other/ talk or behave on stage and stuff is little bit off).

Their beginnings are really important because this is where they find affinity, some girls are closer to each other than others and so on. This is just my opinion because I don’t know them and also, T.V and the way they appear on shows is not 100% reliable, things are scripted or they cannot be their full selves ( would love to see that some day, Hello baby was the closest we could get to see them for real, also invincible youth 1 and few others<3) They are still always authentic, unique, and have won  everyone’s love because of the charisma they portray on and off stage, their reality shows, etc. 

To me the strongest in character members and the ones leading in the group would be : Sooyoung, Hyoyeon, Yuri, Tiffany and Taeyeon.  Yuri plays pranks, Sooyoung does that too and Hyoyeon as well, I think they are the cute bullies in the group lolololll  This makes this group join in together… but lets remember, usually a person becomes extremely close to someone slightly different. I think in relationships the “Opposites Attract” is always valid, because its true and I have proven it myself. So… Yes, I feel this girls are in charge of decision making in SNSD and they make the place cheerful/lively/funny and what not, and the tasks regarding work and such are determined by them and distributed to the members.

The “supporting group” as I would call it would be the rest of the members. They usually follow the previous members and of course they’re hard working and stuff, all the same, even Jessica ( Just being in SNSD is a loooooot of work I don’t agree  ppl saying Jessica is lazy).

All together have an awesome bond. Its not that the Supporting Group has less work or less energy than the Leading Group but its because a group always has it that way. The ones who lead, and the ones who follow, not necessarily in work, also in their personalities. ( This would require another theory for my perspective on both groups’ interactions  for example I feel Seohyun gives her opinion to the leading group about something random or work related, and its up to them to take Seohyun’s wise approach or not, she just says what she thinks but wouldn’t impose it like.. let’s say, Sooyoung, idk I get that vibe.)

Anyway,

 Yuri is imo categorized in the leading group because she is really competitive, she is not shy, she is outgoing and confident and knows whatever she does, she’s going to excel. Yuri is a great friend but I feel she has changes on interests. Mmmm how can I put this… she is… versatile and she can keep a friendship but she changes constantly. She is a good friend, the one that sticks forever emotionally but not physically much? I don’t know >.< like… she has different things in her mind lately ( She seems pretty withdrawn from the group/ observe the last shows and performances) I feel right now new things have come to her life and after looking at her closely I can tell, she is dating rn. ( I think ever since  they were starting Japan promotions in 2010). I can’t tell much right now about her friendships with the girls because there hasn’t been a show just with them interacting with each other, all varieties are short and involve other things for them to do, rather than just interact, but I will say what I think based on what I’ve seen ever since I became a SONE (2009) and their previous variety shows.

Taeyeon-Yuri: I feel Yuri acts so cute around Taeyeon, like the feeling of protection, protecting the kid leader. They are good friends and take care of each other. I feel Yuri is not so close to her? But nothing personal.

Tiffany-Yuri: They became close after MCing together, I think they have pretty cool dynamics, and they talk a lot of course while being on set and such. I feel they have been really close friends, the kind of friends that you talk with, you are close to them, but you are not intimate. As everyone, you and me too, we have many friends but we don’t act the same way with all of them because each one has a different POV and personality. Yuri is the kind to easily adjust to each girl’s personality, opposite to.. let’s say Seohyun. She won’t become funny to the extreme if she’s with Hyoyeon for example. They have been close but not so close in my opinion. Right now I feel its more of a professional matter but they’re the same and all.

Jessica-Yuri: OMFG Yulsic was real, like for real!! in the beginning.

(Refer to my YulSic theory) Yuri and Jessica were close, you can see how their different personalities merged so well. Jessica would usually make Yuri do everything loololol it was funny, they were really affectionate to each other, and trusting… also they experimented with each other. ( Read the theory cuz its long =.=) Then I feel either Yuri got bored or something happened. They cut ties so drastically, so I have a feeling it was something bad, BUT everything has been forgotten already. I see them act different and friendly with each other lately. They were intimate friends, now they’re friendly to each other but not close, not hard feelings either.

Yuri-Hyoyeon: I feel like they love to joke around together, but I don’t think they’re close at all, not hard feelings or anything bad though. I just get that vibe, or maybe I am wrong. Correct me if I am :D Hyoyeon and Sooyoung are the best together lololololl Hyoyeon overall omg I soooo admire her, her beauty and the way she cracks jokes and her creativity, her sarcasm too, OMFG *O* hands down to her! I feel Yul is more witty and bully lololol I think they might joke around, even argue or what ever, but they’re not so close.

Yuri-Sooyoung: SooRi is the best omfggggg XDD so funny the way they interact in Unstoppable Marriage and later. Their dynamics are so funny, lolololololol I think they’re the funny pairing but they are like.. tough the way they joke around like hyungs OTL XDD I feel like Sooyoung is the group’s strength and the ideal girl to confide in, so I think that if everyone wants an honest advice based in reality, wanting to know the truth no matter how it hurts, Sooyoung would be the one, so yeah; i feel Sooyoung knows some of Yuri’s secrets as well.

Yuri-Seohyun: Yuri treats Seohyun as the little sister BUT she bullies her too.( Also hyoyeon, sooyoung and sometimes taeyeon) ahahaha in my opinion so yeah. I don’t think they are so close, but they’re good friends.

Yuri-Sunny: Sunny is the energy pill of the group, but what i love about Sunny is how independent she is, Yuri is also independent and they’re funny, dorky, their interactions are cool. All SNSD, they’re a family of course they’re close and all, but what brought them together was Invincible Youth.. Still I feel they aren’t cloooose clooose friends.

Yuri-Yoona: To me Yuri’s close friends would be Jessica and Yoona, then Tiffany and Sooyoung. Yoona is Yuri’s childhood friend, they practically grew up together being trainees. I feel their friendship is strong and just checking YoonYul TV and other sources you could understand why. I feel right now Yuri has withdrawn herself, I feel her distant because she might be dealing with other things but I know they  will keep their friendship. They are close, like sisters. Their personalities are different but Yoona changes and becomes so lively and dorky with Yuri. 

So yeah I might be wrong, I’m basing this with what I’ve seen through this years and my own experience. I have a radar for this things when I put my mind to it and try to decipher the emotional state of a girl. ( I’m so gay I can’t read guys fully tho I can too lololol OTL) so yeah , If something is missing here u can reply or add more or correct me, would love to know everyone’s opinion <3

First I would ask her if she is hurt. If she has scratches or whatever and then apply some balm and heal  her wounds.

 Then I would cure my own wounds,  moving a little away from her, I WOULD BE SO FREAKING SHY AND QUIET. But I would try  to make stupid jokes or do my dorky aegyo as I talk to her. Then I would ask her if she is hungry, I can go get some fruits for her, but I can’t fish ( I can’t touch animals that are alive like fish, octopuses or w.e :S) so I would tell her that. She is so badass so she’ll prolly go fish some herself or teach me.

Then we would try to make  a bonfire to cook the fish she catches, if she does. Maybe her nails broke so I will idk… look for some rough material to even them out. We might need to clean ourselves and take a bath at  sea shore so… I would swallow hard not to do anything while she is taking her bath, not naked of course. I would build ourselves a small ranch… idk how to do it but for her, I would do my best and at night it would be the end of day one. I will try to make her feel happy and be as friendly/bubbly as possible. I wouldn’t close my eyes, contemplating while she sleeps :(

Second day, maybe she wants to play something, or  would like for us to run around, go get sea shells and talk. I would ask her about everything she likes and then I would compliment her a lot. 

Since the high tech device I pick is my ipod, I’ll show her songs I like. I know she would love the music, she likes the beatles too, so we would talk about that. I would go get some fruit again, and I know we both will be starving by now ( unless I find some bananas XD). When night falls down…. I would… I would tell her how much I love her, but not in a creepy way.  I would want for help to never come T^T but I wouldn’t stop her from going back to her life . T^T i would show her a drawing I made on sand when she was taking her nap, guiding her with a lamp we had saved on the jungle survival kit, and also hand her a letter written on the water proof paper and pencil in the jungle survival kit. When they come to rescue us… I will cry and hug her.

I know I KNOW she will write me emails when she’s back home. OMG MY HEART TTTTTT^TTTTTTTTTTTT I am in place of jessica here

I LOVED THIS QUESTIONSSSSSS OMGGGGGGG SEND ME MOARRRR *0*

I LOVE KWON YURI T^T

I guess the sex part is an assumption, but is really REALLY HARD to like someone, practically live with them for 7 years and have not gone physical u know? the way they act with each other, its like… they want to keep “something” a secret. if there has not been sex, at least they have made out or something. not everyone is horny all the time, but… we’ll never know. yes, its sad… but we can’t lose track of reality as well, later on. Korea has gay life and all, but for a celebrity is a totally different matter. THIS IS JUST MY HUMBLE OPINION based on life experiences, ppl I’ve seen, and creeping snsd 24-7.  

taeny already told, now yulsic :D

Yuri and Jessica have had attitudes that disclose an experimental kind of relationship. this means, I’m not sure exactly how, but they experimented with each other, had physical attraction. why?

because… when u r physically attracted to someone u need to touch them constantly. Usually, this happens after having a close friend relationship. I’ve seen many situations regarding this and I’ve had one, my first. usually this happens with ur first and u determine whether u r straight, gay, bi. it depends and its not a rule, it may happen differently of course. What I mean is… yuri and sica were close friends, something happened and like… they loved touching each other, why? cuz when u try it first u can’t take away ur body or mind from it. it wasn’t love, it was just physical attraction mixed with friendship. friends with benefits perhaps but idk if they went all the way. I feel they just got to kiss and make out, nothing more imo. suddenly they grew up /observe GGTS, FACTORY GIRL, all the shows back then. this was over closely after hello baby. they are friends but… they are straight, and at some point this became awkward. BUT IT WAS REAL. so the fanfics will prevail as the best ever, okay? :D:D:D:D they’re friends, they’re not mad or anything, but the transition was kinda hard. lets always think between all this, they have their stressful job so… its really a complex situation for all of them. having a responsibility like theirs is hard as well. when they became even bigger than back then, things got complicated. JUST MY OPINION. I’m going to sleep now, I’m dying, went shopping with my sis all day X( 

yessss u know why? they hid this for too long. they got tired of that, exactlyyyyy i wouldn’t say my friends are my wive’s u no????  our theories are the same. I hope they last forever, it would be a dream come true if they came out and got married ^0^but……. gay celebrities are not welcomed well in korea… they are closeted like myself. that hurts, i’m worried about tae tae, she was so sensitive at their last concert :(

EXACTLY!!!!!! we have the same theory then!!!! IKR???? they will never accept it openly tho, buuuuuuuuuut remember when they were on some news ( bad memory) same sex relationships on kpop??? THEY WERE ON A FREAKING NEWS THING OMGGG its too obvious. THE WAY THEY LOOK AT EACH OTHER OMG……………………………..

okay I’ll post my taeny theory and lemme see if I have THE GIF that proves it the most. first of all, I’m a girl who dated another girl for 4 years. same situation: not being able to be gay freely, hiding it, blah blah.

THE TAENY THEORYYYYYY—— STEPH’S UNNIE POV TROLOLOLOL

Taeyeon and Tiffany have been roommates before debut. Taeyeon is gay or ate least bi, my gaydar never fails and everyone agrees, we all know she’s gay or bi. why? She is obviously acting when she pretends to fangirl over guys, I’ve seen her close to the suju boys but she’s more like a colleague, a friend. She has dated guys before, thus their come and go’s with tiffany throughout the years. Tiffany… she is straight, but she is weak for taeyeon since the beginning. Their friendship is beyond words, they love each other to the extent of giving their life for the other. Tiffany’s wildness has somehow being tamed by Taeyeon. Taeyeon’s reserved and concealed demeanor has been somehow changed to a more open one by Tiffany. They are so different from each other and yet, I know they have many things in common, except their personalities hahaha. The first years of pre-debut and post debut these feelings were just friendship feelings, FOR TIFFANY… for Taeyeon they already meant something else. Taeyeon has always loved from afar and the fanfic writers are not wrong when they say Tae has unrequited love. Tiffany is christian but that has been bended now. 

Everything is so obvious by the way they look at each other. taeyeon’s eyes told me before… she wanted tiffany so bad, in a physical way. She waited a lot, and their physical encounter, which ever it may be, happened recently. We all suppose it happened before Tiffany injured her knee. Or… even before. 

When they have been apart through the years, it has been for.. 1. either tiffany freaked out, Taeyeon never freaked 2. Taeyeon dated 3. Tiffany dated.

Tiffany is seen serious and changes a lot around guys. Taeyeon is more reserved around guys but… she’s dorky, like she is easy going. Tiffany is either too bubbly and flirty around guys, or too quiet and adult like. She’s bipolar and lets remember, Tiffany always likes to seek attention. She tries to go around with other members, doing skin ship and joking, also to divert attention and not making taeny too obvious. Why would u care for it to be too obvious or not? ONLY IF U REALLY HAD SOMETHING TO HIDE…. *0*

Taeyeon said she could be her true self BTS uhmmm why would it be like that? Yes she is the leader, and YES she is too obvious regarding Tiffany. Its obvious she cares a hell more about fany than the rest. I feel all snsd know the real deal about this. OF COURSE, there’s Jeti … they are super super best friends, having in common being from the US and many more. Of course there’s Yulti, they MC’ed for so long , a really tight bond came through this. 2Ny is more like a tease, in their performances it can be seen, they like to seem hot together, its fan service. Overall Tiffany is super bubbly and great, genuine and kind hearted to her members, its impossible not to love her. She made her members understand in a kind and polite way, that she wanted respect. The first 2 years she was heavily bullied jokingly but, well. Yuri is a bully hahaahah I like that from her, but I feel she would bully me 24-7 ahhaha back then of course… now… she’s so freaking mature  about the mature thing… that’s a whole new topic to discuss. believe me… they wanna grow up fast and when they become older they will cry, wishing they would be young again… my older friends always tell me this.

Taeyeon resisted loving Tiffany so much, for so long. But I guess they talked this through. Tiffany loves taeyeon so much, she depends on her a lot. 2 years ago, they realized this and gave it a chance. Taeny in japan was like WOW. taeny has been so close, and they get into real arguments with each other as well, just like a couple. The way they see each other, look for their eyes to meet, wow… its too much. The way they try to stay away from skin ship in public, and then fail.. it has been come and go ALL THE TIME. They didn’t restrain themselves this year. Taeny is real because their eyes are too telling. YULSIC IS ANOTHER THEORY but later looool

Taeyeon said in her self talk that she loves her position with Tiffany right now. She loves the present, why? because they are together for real. Many people tell me they have had sex… but idk… I feel like they already did. They don’t openly check each other out anymore, they are so carefree when they’re together, I hope they really had sex, PLZ PLZ PLZ OTL. or if not, at least a kiss.

They are acting, like in the stage of the relationship when you are comfy with the other person, because… you know all about her. its been aigoo, 7 years now? hahaha or even more. They are trusting each other, taeyeon seems so secure with what she has, and tiffany seems complete. Look at them closely, they look like they are enjoying life at the max ri know. even with their busy schedules and all, they bear it all cuz they’re together.

At this point snsd has become like a real family, so used to each other. Sooyoung on hello baby said they have kissed each other, one time when she had licked something i cant remember but she said it. things have gone on between each other, as experimenting. BUT the ones that remained real were taeny. taeyeon will never come out as gay… korea will kill her hahah she will eventually get married, tho she is scared just at the fact of having kids. / hello baby the episode when they go with kyungsan to take him bb pics/

none of them openly talk about getting married and have kids like hyoyeon and sooyoung do. I have to search if Yuri did the same as well. 

Taeny know their relationship, all they have right now won’t last forever. That’s why they are enjoying it as much as they can. I hope everything has a happy ending, but for me, all the stages they had correspond of those in a relationship, I’ve seen this with het couples irl and in my own experience, dating my ex girlfriend. YULSIC too… and many ppl, gay and not gay, think the same way I do. 

if this doesn’t move, paste it in a diff tab. WHY WOULD SHE HAVE HER HAND BETWEEN TIFFANY’S LEGS? not doing anything weird, buuuuuuut this are things couples do. when skin ship comes so easy….